I think my frustration with quilting has been similar to yours. I have finished and unfinished projects. But I wasn't realy thrilled about what I was sewing. In recent years I have been limiting gift items, guilds, etc. I am now only an occasional garment sewer. I even limit computer time...no blogging, chatting and limit forum topics to specifics. Even TQS is once a day.
I have limited tv time in my sewing room. I started this bad habit and have regretted it. I don't even want to add up the wasted time, wasted focus and materials screwed up because I was half focused on the boob tube.
My motto this year is, "Just Don't Get Lazy". I try to take time for exploring ideas and to go just one step further than before. Mostly, this has involved more machine quilting than previously tried. I don't have to start from scratch but I don't just want to copy someone else's stuff. I love Sue Garman's BOM series but decided to only use parts of the pattern for quilting motifs on my UFO tops yet to be quilted. I now have a goal to stretch myself in one way or another with every project. I want to say, "This quilt taught me about free hand straight-line quilting" or "about working with large scale prints", etc. Even projects that tell me, "this type of quilt is just not satisfying for me" is a step in the right direction.
As much as possible, I am trying to stay focused on one project at a time. Even great quilt artists like CBF, Ricky & Alex, or Jane Sassaman have to slug through all the ups & downs of creativity to cross the finish line. And that is just takes plain old work.
I hope this doesn't sound like a lecture..it's not meant that way. I just have come to find out that I can't do everything all the time, but I am now, thankfully, enjoying what I do.
Yeah 2008!