Cathy,
Your son's quilt sounds like a well-loved quilt.
I am surprised how attached guys get to the quilts we make for them. I made a quilt for one of my sons years ago. He has lived all over the United States. Sometimes he would load everything he could fit into his car and move, and leave the rest. When he moved back home years later, I was surprised that he still had the quilt I made for him. He said, "Mom, if I can only take one thing with me when I move, it is going to be the quilt my mother made for me."
Marilyn,
Good tip about cutting the binding slightly off-grain. I have done that a few times when I was short on fabric, but felt like I was cheating! I will quit feeling that way! That would distribute the wear and tear on several threads instead of just one end thread.
I prefer bias binding if I have enough fabric. Yes, it can get wonky. However, with some experimenting, I found that if I starch the binding fabric very heavily first, and am careful handling it, I don't have a problem with the bias stretching. I buy the big bottles of Sta-Flo liquid concentrated starch and use a 50/50 ratio (50% starch concentrate and 50% water). I starch it until it is stiff as crisp heavy paper. It takes more prep time, but it makes sewing on the binding a lot easier for me.
Judith