PCummings, That sounds lovely---hope you can find some new quilting friends soon.
Jean, I didn't think you were ranting, just sharing what you've experienced. From what I hear, it's pretty common, sadly.
I'm going to try to rephrase my original question positively.
When you look for a quilt guild, do you look for :
a) a quilt show to participate in
b) small groups or bees
c) workshops/learning
d) new friendships
e) charity projects to participate in
f) an chance to get away from housework
g) something else ?
Sue