PosyP wrote:
Oh yeah! The doctor said he could get hot flashes, mood changes, etc. If this happens, I want to know if I should say, "Oh, you poor thing! I wish there was somthing I could do for you." or "Suck it up, sweetheart. If I went through it, so can you! You gotta keep a sense of humor, or lose your mind, at this point!

Dawn
In beautiful Northwest Montana

I hope Terry doesn't get PMT with the hormone treatment.
Jesting aside, prayers for you both, that you can deal with the worries that all this brings.

Joining in with all the others with love and hugs, Dawn!

Big hugs to you and Terry. Take one day at a time.

UPDATE ON TERRY

Terry (DH) had a CT scan on Monday to look at the spot in his bladder and and look for previous problematic kidney stones. Not only did the CT scan find all of the LARGE stones, but it also found cancer in the lymph nodes that the previous MRI and bone scan were unable to detect. RATS!! So, he is no longer in need of prostate surgery, as the cancer has already metastisized. He has been placed on hormone treatment, and had his first two shots (in the stomach!) yesterday. I understand this is a common treatment for metastisized prostate cancer. If in a month, the PSA number has gone down, we will continue this regime. This will not kill or cure the cancer, just keep it from spreading any further, so I understand. IF it works! If it doesn't, then we will look for other treatments in place of or in addition to the hormone treatment.

Meanwhile we are looking at lithotripsy to break up the stones (one is blocking a kidney and it is beginning to swell). It is a brutal procedure! And, not without side effects. But, very necessary. I'll keep you posted on this.

I am just asking for prayers that we make wise decisions along the way, that the doctors/hospital have the correct knowledge/diagnosis, and that whatever treatment Terry is on, that he tolerates it well and that it is helpful.

I want to thank you all for your prayers, and the "tangible prayers" that I have been receiving! You are my support group, and I love you all.

Hugs to all!
Dawn
In beautiful Northwest Montana

cath, praying for harry and family

sharon, take a deep breath, relax and know that you only need to answer what you know to be the truth

ritzy, congrats - way to go grandma

dawn, will keep praying that all goes well and next steps are soon conquered too

hang in there everyone and enjoy what you can

Hi, Cath, I hope and pray that little Harry gets the treatment he needs ASAP. I'm praying for him and his family in this difficult time.
Hugs,
Shirley

Hi, Cath, Praying for that dear 2 yr old and your family. Hope they get to the bottom of the digestive problem. Hugs, Jan

Ritzy, it is hard to have negotiate the emotional minefield you have all been on for the last period of time. Loved the photos of your new grandbaby. Further prayers for Bob's family and for Jerry's family.
Sharon - court will go well, I know. You're honesty will come through. I have been the victim in this kind of hearing, and it is an important part of the process, but the process doesn't live or die by one witness account. The truth comes true.
Lots of prayers for Dawn and hubby! I hope the news on Tuesday is as positive as last week's news, and the next step on the journey is just as positive.

We received bad news today for my little nephew (2 years). Harry has Cerebral Palsy, stomach/digestion issues, is hearing impaired and now needs glasses as well. He is unable to eat again, so as of last night they have re-inserted a feeding tube. He needs to put on some weight prior to an MRI on Wednesday to see what is going on. The doctors have said at least one more surgery before Christmas now because of this. The MRI will determine how quickly that needs to occur. My sister-in-law feels like she lives at hospital appointments and this kind of news is difficult to take. I pray they receive the guidance and assistance they need at this time.

Oh, Ritzy, such a roller coaster you are on! Just keep remembering how wonderful it was to hold that gorgeous baby boy! I'm praying for Bob's family, and for Jerry's family.
Jan, great news! I hope it keeps up!
Sharon, you will do fine on the stand. Just fold your hands together in your lap and remember to only answer what they ask. Squeeze your hands together before you answer. That will help you be calmer. You don't have to volunteer anything else. If you just concentrate on that, then you'll be fine.
Dawn, I'm looking forward to hearing Tuesday's news!

Please pray for Bob's family--he is dancing with the Lord tonight.

I'm happy and thankful for all the good news here lately!

Thinking of you Sharon and hoping it goes smoothly in court.

Sharon, You will do just fine! Just relax, and BREATH! Am praying for Jerry!

Jan. A big whoopee!

And, thank you all for your happy comments! Mary said I should take a breather and recharge my batteries, and I'm planning to do just that in Houston at Festival! I'm still waiting until after this next CT scan though, before buying my airline ticket. Scan on Monday, doctor on Tuesday, and then we'll know the plan for sure. Surgery most likely the end of September.

Dawn
In beautiful Northwest Montana

Ritzy, I am so happy for Beccah, Josh, and Elisha! You and Loren must be busting at the seams with love and joy! I pray Elisha has a long and bountiful life.

Jan, congrats on the news and I pray it continues to be good.

Sharon, I know you'll be fine. You're a professional and that's what everyone in court will see.

Dawn, so happy Terry's news is good and I pray it will continue.