eileenkny wrote:
I don't know if it's the time of year, or what. I've had some issues with my mother lately. A week ago yesterday, I got a phone call that she wouldn't get out of bed. We got to her, and I tried to find out what was going on. My mother is going to be 93 in a few weeks, and if she doesn't want to answer a question, she won't. Anyway, we got some, not all, things resolved; she's doing better. She has told me that she feels depressed. A few very good friends that I quilt with, and who are members here, advised me to get her to a geriatric specialist. We have an app't this coming Thursday.
I'm asking for your prayers to help my Mom to get over this rough patch. I think she wants to live closer-she's 1 1/2 hours away; I'm an only child, but have 2 kids and a grandson. Maybe she needs family.
Thanks,
I know where you are coming from. I,too, am an only child and my mother will be 98 next month. Less than a year and a half ago, we moved her in with us. It is hard when all they have to do is think about themselves. It is also difficult when the parent no longer has the energy or necessary strength to live independently. In essence the parent becomes the child and that is hard. I am fortunate that my mother has her faculties, although hearing is greatly diminished and not hearing aid suitable. Her joints are worn but she is still ambulatory and yes she is on an antidepressant. She shares pieces of history with me. Things that I would never have known if she were not living with me. I am blessed to have her with us. (Some times, I don't feel that way! Just need a reality check from husband.)
I will definitely pray that things work out for you and her.