Talked to our daughter earlier today. Unfortunately the news about our dgd's father is not good. When they did his surgery, they removed over 60 lymph nodes from his neck and throat area and sixteen or so were cancerous as well as the fact that they could not get all of the cancer from the tongue. So chemo and radiation are in order. He is staying with his Mom and Dad who are old world imigrants with limited English skills and are having a hard time dealing with the after care that is necessary. So our darling 15 year old granddaughter is one of his primary caregivers. He has a "pik line" (not sure of the spelling but an implanted line with a port for the administration of medication) His mom has not been able to learn the process so DGD is administering pain medications to her dad on a regular basis. Plus he has a feeding tube that his mom is having trouble with so DGD is administering the feedings when she is there. This is not good. I love Isabelle's dad dearly and his parents are wonderful people but they are getting old and their English is limited even after many years so their understanding of all these procedures and how to carry them out is impaired. I sit eight hours away thinking, I maybe could handle this stuff if actually pushed to need to but it wouldn't be my first choice of things to do and even if I was there I probably wouldn't be welcomed in to help. No way a fifteen year old should carry this burden. OK now you have listened to my rant and rave because I am so FRUSTRATED!!!!!!!!!!
So please pray for my DGD, Isabelle and her daddy, Frank. And please Lord, give me Patience(and I want it RIGHT NOW!!!!!!) Forget the last of that prayer and answer the first.
Hugs and prayers for all on the list especially Libiana and Libby.
Ann GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME, ALL THE TIME GOD IS GOOD.