Pixi, I am so glad you finally had some success! And, as Muriel said, this is not an easy pattern for many experienced quilters, let alone someone new to quilting! You just need to keep in mind, there are no quilt police (as we say here in the US) so if you have to change something to make it easier for YOU to do it, then that it fine! It is always good to try to learn a new technique, and try the given directions, but if those are not working for you, it is okay to go out on your own. Like, I am not partial to raw edge applique, so for month two, I paper pieced mine. I have done a LOT of paper piecing, so this came easier to me than the applique would have. But, figuring out how to paper piece this could be a nightmare for someone else. This is just such a great pattern, with so many possibilities, that I will continue going forward, no matter what problems come along the way! Have fun with yours and don't hestitate to post questions when they arise, because there are a lot of us out here than can help you.
Okay, your new post just popped up. Have you added the outside frame on these diamonds yet? Is this outside frame/border what you are calling the background? The small point should be put onto the diamond BEFORE the frame/border is added, and it WILL stretch into the border area. But, once the border is added, it will "frame" that little point perfectly. It just looks like too long of a point. A picture of what you are talking about would help.
Dawn
In beautiful Northwest Montana