Thank you Marilyn, I had looked in my Profile,but hadn't seen the preferences before... this new site does not make it easy to figure out where you need to go to make changes.

First...mailmanldy...do you have a real name? Sure would be nice to use it, I think. Now ...have you tried
going into your profile, then clk preferences then clk Emails and notifications. There are a pile of
things there to chose..... maybe that will find what you're looking for.....Marilyn

Is there a setting where we can have the "Subscribe" to thread automatically NOT checked? While I like knowing that there has been some activity on threads I have commented on, I don't want or need my inbox filled up with a notice every time someone posts on a thread, and I keep forgetting to uncheck the box before I hit send. Would be nice if we can select that to be off or on all the time, instead of ON all the time. I know it is easy to unsubscribe, but would like to not have to think about it every time I post on a thread.