"After much soul searching, it all went into the trash."
Oh Sue.... I'm so sorry.
Please consider if an awful mishap ever happens again where you think all is lost and that the item must be tossed, to please post on the list first for alternative ideas.
I go to garage sales and salvage the unsalvagable quilt tops and whole quilts. I take them home and throw them in the washer for a good cleaning. After drying the quilt and checking out the best parts of the quilt, I create Honey Bears out of the good parts. I lightly stuff the bears and add hand embroidery for the eyes, nose, and mouth and then the new little creatures find new homes with the police and fire departments where they are given out to children when needed.
Sew no quilt needs to go away unloved. They can all find new lives as quilt creatures.