I started two groups which are still going strong. My groups are small...big enough to fit around a dining room table...no more than 10 in each group. This way it is doable to meet in homes on a rotating basis.
We do not have dues...nor do we hold offices. Both groups seem to have folks who are good at certain jobs. One gal keeps track of dates and assignments for food...and other is very good at organizing group projects...etc.
In each group, we have done the following activities: Round Robin, block lotto, Block of the Month, group challenges, Ugly fabric swap, Ostrich Round Robin, charity projects...mini classes and sew-ins. Since we are all busy with other things...we try not to overload the activities. We pick one group project...and no more than two projects to work on for the group independently. And example...a Round Robin and Christmas stocks for a group home. You don't want to overload the projects because we have our own personal projects.
Both groups were formed simply because we enjoy quilting. We developed group tasks which helped bind our group together.
If a member cannot do the task...no fear...not everyone can be involved in every thing. We meet once a month which we find is enough. Most of the members have jobs outside the home, kids, and other activities.
We do have an agenda for our meetings: meet and greet (OK gossip), eat, show and tell, group project reports or perhaps a mini class.
Be open to all ideas...and allow others to do what they do best.
In all the years, I have been involved with these groups...I have only had one issue with a group project. I didn't involve the whole group in the issue...and simply handled the issue privately. No one was the wiser...and no one was embarrassed.
Have a wonderful time with your group. It can be a great source of fun, information, and lasting friendships.
FW