Barbara and Helen,
Thank you for your advice about the amount of glue to use. I can see that this is a major part of my problem. In my struggle to get some of the small sides turned under with gluestick and the Appliquick rods, I would get them down a little off the line (which looked bad with these formal mirror-shaped appliques. By then, the glue would start to dry and harden, and I would put more gluestick on, which just made it thicker and lumpier. Not good!
Part of my problem is that after removing some of the back-basting stitches and fussing with those little fiddly shapes, I could not tell where the turn/seam line was anymore. So basically I was ending up eyeballing where the turn/seam line was supposed to be, which didn't work very well with this type of applique.
I am using dark applique fabric. So yesterday after my quilt guild meeting, I took a few scraps of my fabric to my local quilt shop and bought some new markers to try on it. I bought a Clover white marking pen and tried it out at the store. It didn't work well at all.
The clerk let me try the white and yellow frixion pens at the store. Neither the clerk nor I could see the marked lines on the dark fabric, so that didn't work either. I also bought some white chalk markers, because I watched Becky Goldsmith's method in her TQS show, of using chalk around a template.
I went to Pearl Peirera's 3P website and watched how she does it, and learned a whole lot.
I also found a great little YouTube video of Suzanne Marshall showing Ricky Tims how to needleturn a sharp point. I found it on YouTube, but could not find the show on TQS. Looked like a good one.
This morning I found the Liza Lucy Prior front-basting video, where she machine bastes on the front by machine. That looks logical and promising.
So thank you, Barbara and Helen, for all your help! I am going to keep on trying. Can't help it. I have to master this. I don't care how long it takes.
Judy