I do have the starter's kit. The method I've been tinkering with for hand quilting is a combination of Liuxin's instructions and the more traditional motion - I do feel for the needle, but at the edge of my finger rather than on the finger pad...over time I think I will improve on this as well. If I really worked at it my stitches probably would get finer but I'm happy with the 7-9 stiches per inch I'm averaging now - much better than the 6 or less per inch that actually made it to the back of the quilt with my first attempt at hand quilting! The hoop is nice, but if I hadn't received it as a gift I don't know that I would have purchased it myself. A nice wide hoop from any local supplier would be more than sufficient. I did like trying out quilting on a sample of "good" cotton/batting and being able to know for sure how it was supposed to feel as I quilted - I think that it will save me some trial and error in the future as I will stop if I have more trouble with a certain type of batting when compared to what I used before. Really - the thimble, needles, and thread were the best part of the kit - and I do plan on re-ordering the thread and needles when I run out.
You can see video of Liuxin's technique on you-tube - it was a Simply Quilts episode with Alex many years ago. She also did an episode on TQS as well - but if you are not a star member you won't be able to view it.
~ Jen