Hi Lorchen, That was a good suggestion to look for hand quilting videos on the Internet. I've been looking recently because I'm trying to improve my hand quilting. Some she should look for are Sharon Schamber (yes, she does hand quilting as well as machine quilting and has a great video), Luixin Newman (there's a episode of Simply Quilts that Luixin is on, but also her own web site has videos, mostly demonstrating her products, but still, you can get the idea), and sewjournal.com. Also, there is a blog dedicated to hand quilting:
http://celebratehandquilting.blogspot.com/. I use wool batting because it's easier to needle. I've been using Hobbs Heirloom, but I plan to try both Hobbs Tuscany wool and Quilter's Dream wool. I've heard that both are easier to needle than the Hobbs Heirloom. Some polyesters are also good to needle, and bamboo can be as well, though the brand I've used tends to beard.
Congratulations on your son's upcoming nuptials! An exciting time!! Hugs, Robin