Thanks everyone! sorry if I am not quoting everyone, but running out the door and wanted to just say thanks real quick! I hadn't realized the slippy mat was so expensive; drat. But then, I won't have it in a table anyway, so probably does not matter. I did see the tip to use rubber grippy shelf paper, instead of gloves, and will do that for the reasons mentioned above --- I can't use my hands well when inside a glove! My mom even sent me some fingerless gloves to use in the winter (keep my hands warm) but even those felt restrictive & awkward.
I will check the library for the books; maybe I can read and take notes and not have to buy. Or find one on sale. I don't mind *one* good book in my shopping bag
I know I'll need to refer back often.
Many thanks for helping me make this list! If you want to keep going, that's great; I don't go until August and maybe this can be a good list for beginners in general of "must-have", "nice to have", "don't bother with, use x instead" kind of thing.
above all, I'm so grateful my quilting mentor (Joyce/She-Quilts) showed me this website!!!! You ladies are so encouraging, besides being a wealth of great info.