My mother and grandmother both sewed and crocheted, but did not quilt. My mother had four daughters--
I'm the fourth--before she had two sons. She sewed and smocked most of our dresses, and also made lots of clothes for our dolls.
Honestly, I don't remember being taught or learning how to sew, just like I don't remember learning how to walk. I'm guessing I must have started pretty young. All of my sisters also sewed, but only two of us really took it on as a hobby. My sister, Janet, even took tailoring classes and became quite an expert sewer. She taught me some tailoring techniques, but she stopped sewing as an adult. By junior high school, I made lots of my own clothes. During high school and college, I continue sewing for myself and others. I earned money by making bridesmaid dresses and party dresses for friends. I enjoyed making dresses for my nieces.
My great-grandmother was a quilter. So, when I got married, she made a quilt for me as a wedding gift. That sparked my interest in quilts, but I didn't make a quilt until many years later. I never made quilts for either of my own two baby boys
When my brother was expecting his first child, a quilter coworker suggested that I make a Rail Fence baby quilt as a gift. I had no quilting knowledge or experience, but used my sewing skills to make the quilt and I handquilted it. No rotary cutters, no 1/4" seams, no quilting thread/needles and I doubled up the batting to make it extra thick and warm. No wonder why it was so difficult to quilt, but it actually looked pretty good.
I continued occasionally making baby quilts, learning more from Simply Quilts, books and quilter friends. However, it wasn't until I attended my first quilt show in 2004 that I fell head over heels in love with quilts and everything quilt related. Shortly thereafter, I joined the guild that had put on the quilt show.
It wasn't until after joining the guild that I considered myself a quilter. To me, membership in a quilt guild was essential to hone my quilting knowledge and skill. Also, the friendships I've made there have been invaluable.