Oh Mary, I'm so sorry you've having to deal with all of this! I will keep you, your mother, and your family in my prayers. I'll be out of email contact for the next few days, but I'll be saying prayers every day that you find the light at the end of this tunnel. Just take it one day at a time, and know we all care very deeply about you. Big hugs, Robin
I'm also adding prayers for Tom Russell.