LOL, I hadn't see this post until today. I didn't have time to read everything but I skimmed it all. Do I regret starting the BOM - absolutely not, but like someone above said I have given myself permission to be late finishing it. Do I regret thinking I could do two of them - no, because that is my other happy discovery. I thought I could do two at once, one for me and one for my mom. Well, the one for my mom stalled after the February boarder was done. I just did not have time to do it. My 2008 BOM also was stalled - I just did not have time to sit and hand needle turn anymore with all the stuff going on with Mikey.
Here a couple of weeks ago though, I revived the 2008 BOM - I have 7 blocks finished. Just for fun I put the unused 2009 center up on the wall and started putting my finished 2008 blocks around it. Low and behold they MATCHED!!! I had decided on both projects they would be stash busters and I had used many of the same fabrics in both. So now I only need to finish one more block of the 2008 BOM, I will use extra sawtooth stars to space things (I made 16 extra already from when I was planning 2 quilts) and add floaters to make things match up and voila! Instant finished quilt top that is really different from anything I have ever done. Goes to show it is always worth it to at least start something, because you never know when you can put a few starts together to complete a quick finish