You are so right, Rosemary - as always! I'm going for trousers and top in navy, with a rather colourful unstructured, longline jacket in a rather scrumptious Italian silk. The bride loves the silk. So, I think I'm going to go into Nottingham the week after Easter and have a look around. It always surprises me how little I manage to do during school holidays. A list of important 'stuff' accumulates during term-time, and then the holiday is gone before I have even managed half of what I had planned. Ah well, we'll see.....
I must admit I would prefer a hat to a fascinator. A hat is a little more substantial, and I can't really see myself with something frivolously frilly and feathery stuck on top of my short grey hair. But I keep an open mind and will try anything. If all fails I'll go 'hatless' or I'll borrow your rabbit hat for the occation.