2 months? I've been practicing for years!
I've discovered Wonderfil Invisifil thread. It's 100wt, very fine and great for beautiful free-motion quilting. Contrasting thread looks awful when you're first starting, as does heavy thread. If you match the thread to the fabric, errors really don't show as bad but the textures come through. I'm really liking the result.
I use Bottomline in the bobbin & drop the top tension a fair amount with the Invisifil thread. (2.75 on my machine) Right now my needle of choice is a Schmetz 75 Quilting Needle. I also loosened the presser foot pressure a bit (I think that's what you call it)
The bite-sized quilting technique (see the Bernina video on the homepage) takes away having to wrestle with a full-sized quilt & turns out a really nice product. Right now I'm working on 12" blocks with the OESD Feathered Beauties embroidered in the middle. I cut the block and batting bigger than the finished size to give something to hold on to to get to the edges.
After having a BSR for 3 years, I'm finally hooked. I go slow, a loop at a time, use gloves, and a small stitch length (2.0 to 2.5 for feathers, 1.5 for tiny stipple). After poking needle holes in two supreme sliders, I've given up on those. I just use my fingertips with very light pressure to guide the fabric, rotating lots for good visibility.
Doodle constantly, waiting at the doctor's office, watching tv, in meetings. This has helped tremendously with free-motion feathers and lots more.
http://dianegaudynski.blogspot.com/
http://www.daystyledesigns.com/365project.htm
Patsy Thompson's classroom videos
http://mqresource.com/ - free registration and free videos with absolutely stunning quilts to look at
I even watch every long-armer video I can find just to watch their techniques & see how it might apply. It's amazing to see the pros make mistakes
Karen McTavish actually picks out stitches if they look bad.
Be patient with yourself, enjoy the process & keep at it. You will get better!
hth
Susan