Wendy,
I am sitting here eating my breakfast in Australia and sending you a great big Bernina smile. Only Bernina ladies know 'that smile'! Your new 'baby' looks like it was made to fit on your table in your sewing space!
Don't be afraid of anything, give everything a try. Nothing will bite you and if you change any settings, they will just go back to factory settings. If you want to keep any setting changes, don't forget to save changes in your 'favorites'.
The BSR is fantastic..................please give it a try. I prefer mode 2, I use bobbin fill and I usually change my top tension down to about 2 for my 820QE. Play with the tension to suit your threads, it is not like old style machines, you can't ruin anything. Practice, practice, practice.
Wishing you many happy sewing hours for many years to come. (By the way, the new 97D foot is really worth getting for patchwork)
Ann, I just read your post and my eyes lit up when you said Derbyshire. I have lived in Australia since 1965, but I came from Derbyshire, UK. A little place called South Normanton, near Alfreton.
Happy sewing to all.
Heather