Thanks, Diane! I hear what you're saying. Videos, of course, provide you with great close-ups but no feedback. I also feel like a lot of the time a video takes to run is pretty much wasted time. I want any video I watch to be tight and professionally produced.
You can get feedback with online courses. Most of those I've taught both for Quilt U and now for QuiltEd Online, and the Craftsy and Academy of Quilting ones, require teachers to respond within 24 hours. Still, it's not the same as having a teacher in the room with you so you can get assistance immediately. On the other hand, you didn't have to take time out and spend a lot of money to travel to some other place for a workshop, so there are benefits on both sides!
What I also hear you saying, though, is that time constraints may be making you feel unnecessarily pressured. I've written an 8-part series of articles on the
QuiltEd Online News called Time-Saving for Quilters. It's a study in quilting with a minimalist style that, although the situation forced me to conduct my quilting in a way I would never previously have considered, resulted in a ten-fold (or more!) increase in my quilting productivity. The time I spend in my studio is precious, and I now know how to maximize it for best results.
Perhaps my ideas, shared in that series, could help you, too! Find the first article in the series
here. Hope this help you a lot!